That’s probably the best way to show someone that we love them is to accept them for who they are. 

By doing this, we not only show them that we love them but also that we appreciate having them in our lives.

All other forms of love are selfish love, where we love the other person because they do something for us or live our way.

This is different from some changing themselves independently, without force – because they want to.

It is easier said than done.

And that is why it is worth cultivating, even if it takes time and even if we are not always successful in putting it into practice.