If you’ve been on a path of growth you know you didn’t just wish and transformed into who you are today.
You took small steps over months and years.
If you haven’t been on the path of growth but want to do so then know that the identity you wish to get for yourself today, won’t emerge in a second or a day.
You may change your clothes and do some external things, but internal lasting change takes time. It often takes months and years.
The good news is that, over those months and years you can aim for any identity and take small actions that will take you there.
Like everything else it starts with a small action.