Self-criticism and negative self-talk can severely damage our self-esteem. It’s important to remember that we would talk to our friends differently than we sometimes talk to ourselves. So, why do we treat ourselves so harshly?

It’s time to start being kinder to ourselves. Treating ourselves with compassion and understanding can profoundly impact our mental health and well-being. Here’s how you can start making a change:

Watch your self-talk

The first step to changing the way we talk to ourselves is to be aware of it. Pay attention to the thoughts that go through your head and how you talk to yourself. Are you using negative language? Are you being overly critical?

Reframe your thoughts

Once you’ve become aware of your self-talk, it’s time to reframe your thoughts. Instead of criticizing yourself, try to find something positive to say about yourself. Focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

Practice self-compassion

Self-compassion is the practice of treating ourselves with kindness and understanding. It involves recognizing that everyone makes mistakes and is okay to be imperfect. When feeling down, we can remind ourselves that we wouldn’t talk to a friend the way we talk to ourselves.

Take care of yourself

Finally, make sure to take care of yourself. This can mean different things to different people, including getting enough sleep, eating well, or engaging in physical activity. We’re better equipped to be kind to ourselves when we care for ourselves.

Treating ourselves with kindness and compassion can profoundly impact our mental health and well-being. 

By changing how we talk to ourselves and practicing self-compassion, we can build a more positive relationship with ourselves. 

Remember to be gentle with yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments.