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Do you do go to industry events and conferences?

If you do then read further.

Recently a close friend and I were discussing ideas around attending conferences and meet ups. That discussion motivated me to write this post.

At times I go to industry events as a speaker, many a times as an attendee. For many years now I have also been hosting events. The thoughts shared here are focussed on helping attendees who are looking for ways to get the best out of their time at conferences, meet ups and community events.

Before you go to the conference

A little planning never hurts.

Think about your reason.

Think about why you are going to the conference. I go for relationships and positive energy more than anything else. You reasons may be same as mine or maybe you are out to learn, find a cofounder or potential employees.

Get your cards ready.

If you are there to improve your personal brand then you may get special cards printed – may be with your twitter handle, your website or blog URL on it. If you want to go a step further then get a couple of custom t-shirts made with a logo or website URL printed on it.

Reach out.

Just see if there is a list of confirmed attendees online. Good if you find some familiar names; connect with them before the event happens and then plan to meet at the conference.

Get your elevator pitch ready.

What is an elevator pitch? Some of you may ask. An elevator pitch his is what you say in response to “so what do you do” question. It should not take longer than 15 seconds to explain. Sure you are a man of many talents; but no need to disclose your all talents during initial introduction. An elevator pitch serves the purpose well in such situations.

Find an event buddy.

Before you become well versed with the people in community and they become comfortable with you; find a friend who is interested in the topic of the conference you are planning to go to. Let us call this friend your “event buddy”. You both can keep each other’s company when you are at the event.

On the day of the conference

Reach early.

I would say reach as early as 1 hour if it suits you. It will help you make connections when everybody is fresh and looking forward to the day.

Bring your event buddy along.

The key here is not to be with your event buddy all the time. Just try to explore some new connections during breaks; you may come back and sit together later.

Dress for the occasion.

Check this; recently I went to an event hosted by Melinda Gates. Thanks to some delays at the beginning of the day; I had to take a call between not attending and going wearing a t-shirt, jeans and a pair of sneakers.  I chose the latter.

I was lucky to find a friend wearing something similar still we were the odd ones out. This was a business event so it would have made sense to wear something formal. Point is, by dressing formal (read serious) you send a signal that you mean business. At times this is what is required.

Also use commonsense while deciding. If you are going to a start-up weekend or BarCamp kind of event no point wearing a suit but otherwise choose formal over casual.

Look fresh.

If the event falls over a weekend do not look like you are coming straight from the bed. Looking fresh also comes from feeling fresh. You know what I mean.

Talk.

You may be reserved or an introvert by nature; but when you are at a conference – just go and talk to people. If you find it really hard, start with listening to conversations during breakout sessions. Then move on to saying hi, this is (Your name here). If you do not want to talk then you may better stay at home and watch videos on TED.com or have fun otherwise.

Do not over do it.

Do not try to do everything (making connections, pitching for a job or funding etc.) at the conference itself. Treat it as an opportunity to make initial connection. Take it slow and easy like you would on your first date.

Take Pictures.

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Osama Manzar with kids and Aparna Wilder at TEDxGurgaon

Because it helps your capture moments and it is good to be able to take some memories home. Further when you click the photo of a person or a group it is likely that some of them will come to you and ask to take a look at the photograph. Some will even share their email ids requesting the images to be emailed. Ice broken, connection made, and mission accomplished. Happy now.

After the conference is over

Just check out what to do after you exchange cards and do as suggested.

Be at it.

It helps if you attend events on a regular basis. You need not attend one event every week but once a month or once in two months is ok. Depends on time on your hand and what stage of life you are at.

It helps if you are seen in the community. When you are a newbie on local event circuit people may just give you a passing look; during your next event more people will notice your face. By the time you are on to your 4th or 5th event in a year, you will start to find some familiar faces. Soon it will look like your own turf and you will start enjoying the experience.

Hope this helps you make the best use of time at a conference.

See you soon at an event.

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Try this and never lose control over your day again

Control

Control key for your life

This post is no. 4 in 7-post how to make an impact series

Now you know how to wake up excited and triple your productivity.

Chances are that you are supercharged now and intend to achieve a lot in little time.

I wish you good luck but there is something more you need to be careful about. Let us see.

You start your day really excited with intention of making the best of it; then distractions and interruptions come up. These distractions may look hard to tackle but if you plan well then you can control your day and spend your time well.

Let use see how these simple ideas can help you.

Think about roadblocks first

If you are in a job then your boss, unwanted meetings, conference calls and interruptions from colleagues are things that can turn your plans for the day upside down.

For entrepreneurs obligatory meetings, client calls, doing unwanted administrative tasks, interruptions created by employees (if your employ people) are major hindrances.

How to steer clear of these roadblocks?

Knowing your roadblocks is half battle won. Now let us explore ideas to tackle the other half.

1. Start with an end in mind

Know what you want to achieve in a day. Once you decide, list it in on a paper, cell phone or in a text file on your laptop.

When you make a list do not do what I used to do. Years ago when I started making a to-do list, I used to list 20 tasks on my list. At the end of the day I would only be able to finish 2-4 tasks at max, remaining tasks went to next day’s list. Within next 3-4 days my to-do list used to be so long that just by looking at it I’ll know that I am not going to finish the remaining tasks even in a week.

Now being the fighter I am, I used to spend weekends finishing remaining tasks and striking tasks off the list. I do not recall a single weekend when I was able to finish all listed tasks. Over the years I realized that this is not going to work.

What works best for me and many others is to start with a small to-do list for the day with maximum 2-3 tasks on the list. Keep it balanced; create it with a mix of 1-2 regular task and 1 challenging task. Also keep some time for unplanned activities on your list, 30-60 minutes a day is fine.

Remember not to bite more than you can chew.

2. Always have a start and end time

Having made a to-do list that you are sure of finishing at the end of the day; put a start and end time for your work day on the list. This will make sure that you control your day in a balanced manner – not going overboard and using your fun and family time for work.

3. Phone & Email Practices

People who you communicate with on a regular basis and who are not family or friends should know that your time is valuable. Train them to communicate in a to-the-point manner. Make a rule to not to stretch a phone call for more than 5 minutes. If you are used to talk for long then you start with limiting it to 10 minutes first.

The length of emails that you send should not exceed 5 sentences. If it exceeds 5 sentences, re-read and edit. If you think it will take longer to explain, pick your phone and talk; and remember the 5-minute rule.

4. Be driven by purpose and not people

But have a place for people in your purpose-driven life.

People in our lives even those who love us tend to drive us by what they think is important. Tell them what is important for you in life; if they really love you they’ll understand. Share with help of a story of which includes them.

Find the purpose of your life and build your life around it. Once your know your purpose then nothing will be able to distract you.

5. Create a special place for yourself

If you work in a job, there are ways to do it. One simple way is to help your boss shine thinking less about who gets the credit. If you are hungry for credit and are not getting it at work then create your own projects, work on your personal brand and learn to help people. Keep working and be really good at what you do.

For all reasons ask for a raise, fair treatment, and opportunities to showcase your talent.

But help your boss shine. Once you do it; she will offer you freedom (you will have to ask for it) to sit out of unnecessary meetings; and assign you projects that you love.

Be insanely helpful to everyone you can. Be commonsensical, Do not fall sick or sideline your own work doing that but beyond that be really helpful.

Increase your self-worth and acquire skills that will make your indispensable and unique in your industry and community.

6. Ask for help

Start with helping those around you. Learn to delegate early in your work life. Ask friends and colleagues for help when needed.

7. Try fasting

If you are lagging behind on a big project; then take a social media fast or go on a 7-day online fast. Get over with what is pending.

8. Make a new beginning

If you lose control of your day because of some unexpected or unwanted distractions one day; do not lose heart. Everyday is a new day, start afresh. You will get it with some practice.

9. Learn to say no

Most of the times plans go haywire because things come up – offer to go to a party, attend a meeting or just the need to be at a social gathering or conference. If you see that a particular event or activity will hamper your schedule; then avoid it. You will be fine with saying no in most of the situations.

10. Act confident

It helps if you appear confident. It is different than being arrogant. Confidence emanates from knowing things and experience; so gain experience and learn about things that you need to know. Once you do it people around will listen to you .. more; and you will have better control of day to day situations.

11. Use life hacks

Check email once/twice a day (15 minutes each) and limit your social networks time to 15 minutes a day. Use 4X4.

Hope these ideas help you. Have more ideas to share? Something unique that works for you?

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Hi there, my name is Mohit Pawar. I work with brands and digital media based out of New Delhi, India. In my spare time, I pen my thoughts; organize open-source technology conferences and devote my energies to the cause of entrepreneurship. More